Since I've only gone out with them twice, I don't really feel like I owe too much of an explanation. So, I don't tell them. I just stop answering all their texts. Which has been quite effective until today. A previous end-of-the-line-second-dater, called me out on my dating tactics. He dared to put me in my place. Attempted to make me seem immature and childish....He said, and I quote .... "I hope you're alright - I received no answer from you....not something adults usually do."
*GASP*
*stomping my foot* Did he NOT read the dating handbook? Isn't that the standard, to just not respond?
I didn't' make up these rules, they were there when I got here. *stomp my foot again*
So now I feel bad. I'm gonna have to go out with him on a 3rd date, out of guilt. I texted him back and explained my whole phone crashing incident, that I'm not childish and immature. I'm a victim of technology. I agreed to meet him Sunday for lunch. He seemed okay with that...but then he said, "let me know where. I'm persistent but not stupid"
HOLD UP!!!
RED FLAG ON THE FIELD!! ^ ^ ^ that was passive aggressive statement and unwarranted.
So this morning, Sunday, he says, "I'm in Moore - As I mentioned yesterday tell me when/where. I won't hold my breath"
PENALTY FLAG!! ^ ^ ^ Passive aggressive and unwarranted..AGAIN.
Here is my OUT internetz!! I'm taking this ball and RUNNING with it!
I said... "That's twice now you've made a passive aggressive statement that has made me feel defensive. I'm not willing to overcome obstacles that shouldn't be there. Thank you for spending some of your time with me, but I think I'm too sensitive and scattered for us to be compatible."
BOOM! Nailed It.... Date off. Whew. Twisted that shit to his fault, I'm STILL the victim. I was really nervous about a 3rd date, too. I was not looking forward to second base.
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